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I am a mother, a grandmother, and a teacher. But whatever happens in my life, I keep sewing. I have worked as a political communicator and now as a teacher in my formal life. I have also written extensively on sewing. I have been a frequent contributor and contributing editor of Threads magazine and the Australian magazine Dressmaking with Stitches. My book Sew.. the garment-making book of knowledge was published in May 2018 and is available for pre-order from Amazon
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Saturday, April 6, 2019

Some thoughts and a quick request for feedback

Hi folks.

This morning I am in Tulsa Oklahoma. Today I am going to be visiting the vintage sewing museum and this evening doing a book signing at the incredible Art Deco Mayo Hotel.

Tomorrow I am going to be teaching all day and really looking forward to that.

After this we will be heading home.

It has been a really great trip. Basically we relaxed in the state parks and concentrated on spending time with the other guys - my son in Austin and my oldest son and his family in Berkeley. It was tremendously restorative for me to do both.

This trip has also given me some time to think about what to do next and that includes this blog.

While I have been away I did a podcast interview for C & T who published my book. One of the comments made during the course of the questions was that my book was very different in that there was a lot of writing in it, as opposed to most books they publish which focus more on instructions. This was interesting because I have been thinking about doing more instructional stuff particularly for new sewers, I am thinking Youtube, but I also think this was a very valid comment.

I really like writing. In fact the best part of the book process for me was the writing not the sample making to be really honest, although I liked doing the step-by-step instructions when I thought they were about sharing something stress reducing and easy making ideas.

This also got me thinking about this blog.

I don't know about you but social media often overwhelms me. So many great garments, so many beautifully styled photos, such tremendous output. 

I sew all the time, nearly every day, but it is often a communication thing, a creative thing more than an output exercise. Many of my garments are now for other people and I always want to do a surprise. This doesn't make for consistent blog presentation.

I really don't think I can keep up with that kind of blogging, the garment photos twice a week stuff. That is done so much more capably by other people. I really want to just communicate with other sewers about our lives and our sewing more than do a lot of show and tell, because my life doesn't work like that.

So I am thinking about doing this.

Focusing on my Instagram account @bemodi for the showing what I am making part. I want to do this particularly when there is a pattern I want to share or a fabric source to pass on. I will still do garments and construction here of course, but Instagram is so fast and easy for this kind of stuff and that is helpful for frequent posting.

Using my Youtube channel Barbara Emodi more for the kind of information I want to share with newer sewers in particular, or for techniques I would place in the nifty idea category. I have decided to do some basic how-to's on Youtube for my daughter-in-law in Berkeley. I left her a machine and she has outstanding textile/design sense and might find those useful.

Writing in this blog about stuff

Thoughts I am having, considerations on sewing, a little more unplugged. This might be a disappointment to those who see this as a sewing only blog, but to me sewing is part of the flow of my life. Hard for me to make that separation.

I think I need more of a writing outlet right now than to feel the pressure to produce regular sewing production blog posts - it would be good to go a bit more random.

Flypaper thoughts type writing more often here if you get my drift.

So I guess the question is what do you think?

52 comments:

Paula said...

Thumbs up! Whatever floats your boat. Knock yourself out. You get the drift

Krista said...

I will continue to follow your blog no matter what you post. I love your thoughts and writing style and come here far more for your wit and wisdom than your latest sewn item (although that’s good too). I usually just lurk, but the real fear in my heart is that you would stop blogging altogether.

Anonymous said...

The part of your blog I enjoy most is the writing. Don't get me wrong, the sewing stuff is great. Your method for putting in a knit v-neck? Life altering. Half my wardrobe is now knit v-necks. But your thoughts on menopause, and Daisy (sob, sniff,smile), and family make your blog unique and memorable.

Sandra said...

My first encounter with your blog was a Flypaper Thoughts posting and I’ve been a regular reader since then. I think you have a unique perspective and let’s face it the blogosphere needs more good writing like yours. I’m with Krista...whatever you decide to do it will be worth seeing, hearing and reading. Thanks!

expat in Side said...

Love your blog especially your writing style. I appreciate your tips too, been sewing for more than 50 years and I still think, oh, why didnt't I think of that! Seeing a new post from you always brightens my day, thank you, Angela

Ms. Russell said...

I love your Flypaper Thoughts post--they always make me smile--as well as your life and sewing posts. If you enjoy writing them, then the reader will enjoy reading them. I think the reader can tell when the writing is more of a chore than it is enjoyable by the author. Write what makes you happy and the readers will continue to visit--I know I will!

Chloe said...

Your Flypaper Thoughts are my favourite posts!

Deb Glosek said...

I live for your flypaper thoughts! I even read them to my husband from time to time.

sallygardens said...

Sounds wonderful to me! I started reading your blog because it was a sewing blog but turns out that isn’t even my favorite thing about it. I love your flypaper thoughts and all the things you have written about everything else. I would gladly buy any book you wrote whether it was about sewing or not.

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a great idea! I LOVE your writing and your thoughts on life. Do It!
Sydney Brown

HalifaxFaye said...

I think your writing is a unique expression of your thoughts, fears, and Hope's. Can I get sewing instructions elsewhere? - Yes; but yours are fun to read and filled with commonsesnse. Your flypaper thoughts often mirror mine and make me giggle. Use whatever format you feel is the most expressive of your style. The long and short is, please don't stop writing. You often make my day.

Jeannieuk said...

I thoroughly enjoy reading your blog so please don’t stop. I will look forward to hearing about your “stuff”.

Juliana Bendandi said...

I loove love getting your posts and thoughts about this and that and about sewing. I also enjoyed reading your book very much. I devoured it on my kindle without stopping to try out themethods. I am thinking of buying it in paper form because it‘s such a lovely book. I discovered you on clothes making mavens and love your easy conversational style. I am an ex-patriate Canadian and have lived in Germany for over twenty years now - so listening and reading you also gives me a rich link to English. Keep it up! (I‘d love it if you did you tube videos!)

Jacq C said...

I am delighted to see a posting from you - on the blog, on Instagram, anywhere! Your writing is brilliant, I think your book is fabulous and Flypaper Thoughts are my favourite, if I start laughing aloud my husband says “Babsie?”. You do whatever feels right for you and if you’re looking for UK branch of your Fan Club I’d be delighted to run it! 😂

Linda said...

Thank you so much for your blog. I’m always happy to read a new post, and I’ve read your book a couple times. I don’t have an Instagram account and don’t much like YouTube unless there is a particular thing I can’t find anywhere else—I learn better from print. Your blog is truly something special, and I’m glad you are planning to keep it up, even if the postings aren’t quite as regular.

Lori said...

I love reading your blog, Barbara, whether you're writing about sewing or not. You shouldn't feel it's necessary to focus solely on sewing all the time. Blogs allow more room for creative writing, and you certainly have a flair for that. Will continue to read whatever you write. :)

Kay said...

I enjoy your writing!! glad you are planning continue with it!

Becky R. said...

You have to do what works for you, Barbara. I will continue to follow your blog, but I will miss the sewing stuff. I have successfully resisted social media such as instagram, twitter, and facebook since I think they are a huge time suck, so I will not be following you on instagram. I know it is the trend for sewers, but I am just not going to follow multiple platforms. Go forth and prosper!

Anonymous said...

I started reading your blog because I knew your name and it’s relationship to sewing. But I follow your blog because of your writing
—-so much fun to read. LOVE Flypaper Thoughts! I don’t do Social Media because of the invasion of privacy issues; don’t do you tube because it is the fastest way to be invaded! So I guess I will miss your sewing info—-BUMMER. But do what YOU need to do for you.
Renita in NC

Unknown said...

Marlene said....
I too love your blog, I started reading your work many years ago in an Australian Sewing magazine, when my copy arrived in the mail I would flick straight to the back where your 2 pages of mirth were, and laugh until tears flooded my eyes. When that magazine folded you disappeared from my life...until many yeas later I found you again in blog form, I was so delighted. Don't disappear again.

Anonymous said...

Go for it! I have enjoyed reading about your sewing thoughts and adventures, very much (my favourites include your piece on body positive image, the detailed piece on sewing knits and your adventures sewing on the road). Your book is also wonderful and inspirational. As other have commented...I'm so happy that you're planning to continue to write!

Sarah Wale said...

Please, keep on blogging ... flypaper thoughts, random inspirations, whether about sewing or your family or how to cope with a situation that's arisen ... all are wonderful to share in and be a part of. I got your book out of our library, in a tiny, rural community in the very far north of New Zealand, and was so taken with it I got my husband to buy me a copy for my anniversary p[resent ... something we don't often do because books are incredibly expensive here and, as you'll have guessed, we have a terrific library service. Although I'm a sewist of 55 years standing who thought she'd just about got it licked and knew all the tricks, you still teach me a lot and I will certainly enjoy your Instagram and YouTube 'tutorials' but still look forward to your gems of philosophy, Life of a Mum/Grandma and all the other stuff you post on your blog. Don;t feel pressured to post on any of the various forums (fora?) to a timetable, just do it when the mood and inspiration strikes. Enjoy what you do and we'll enjoy it too!

tpotty28 said...

I echo all the earlier sentiments. Do whatever you want and we will all still read and enjoy. But please don't stop blogging. There are still a few of us dinosaurs out there who don't Instagram.

Kamchick said...

I also love your writing, Barbara. I read and re-read your book all the time...so practical and complete. I have no presence on social media - not enough hours in the day. If you write another book, though, I'll be sure to buy it. My dream would be to attend a sewing class where you were the teacher. Keep up the wonderful blog...we share your joys and sorrows, enjoy your marvelous wit and constantly learn from you about EVERYTHING.

Carol Lee said...

I’ve been following your blog since someone talked about it on Patternreview.com, so obviously it was the sewing connection at the start. I so loved reading your book and every so often I’ll check in and catch up on your blog posts. I really enjoy your flypaper thoughts and musings on life. I’m a lifelong journaller and am still amazed at the insights that will pop up in the middle of a writing jag. So please do keep writing, about whatever moves you, and I’ll keep reading!

SilverMom said...

I love your blog and will continue to follow regardless of content. That said, i will sorely miss sewing stuff that goes to other media (which I don't use). Thanks for being such a pillar of the sewing tribe!

Maryissewfast said...

Hi Barb,
I think you should follow your heart. Once upon a time I blogged religiously and loved it, but life evolved and it no longer worked for me. It happened to other bloggers who I friended through the blogosphere. I discovered new friends who vlog on YouTube and that is a great format for teaching. I love your Flypaper thoughts and will continue to follow you whatever you decide...

Nana said...

I have benefited from all the tutorials you have presented in this blog, but the fly paper thoughts are the main reason I keep coming back. It seems to be the real you. Keep sharing.

pgardner said...

Go random but don't stop blogging. I can/We can look up a technique on YouTube or in one of the number of books out there or on my book shelves. I want to hear you speak of life, randomly, in your voice. If sewing is in the conversation, great. If not, still good conversation.

Ginger said...

Do what works best for you. I love that your bog shares real photos and honest pattern thoughts. Have a safe trip home.

SuzyQ said...

I follow plenty of blogs of the "Look what I made" category. I enjoy them! BUT -- you are in a different class altogether. You are about what sewing means, to you, your family, and the creative community. I am happy to see what you made, love your tips and tricks, but I really come for the authentic voice living a life. So thank you, and carry on!

Marty said...

Do what you love to do. This about you, your creativity inspires us either way. New to your blog, wouldn't have it any other way.

Martha said...

From one mother/grandmother/teacher/rv-er/wife/seamstress to another: please don't stop writing. I love reading about your travels in the rv. I enjoy seeing your sewing projects. You have given me the courage to begin sewing shirts for my husband while showing your sons' shirts. But I will keep reading your writing regardless of the amount of sewing content.

Mitra said...

I started reading your blog around the time you were mostly posting flypaper thoughts and I was hooked! Love your book, love the sewing, I sew too, and I have learned a lot from you - but I love your writing style.

Keep on keeping on, you’ve a reader for life in me!

paloverdeblooms said...

Please, if you're going to start putting lots of stuff on Instagram, will you please have a prominent link to your account on the blog? I don't have a cell phone (so can't have an account) and don't regularly try to see anything on Instagram unless there is a direct link. I don't mind looking at Instagram—I just need an easy way to get to you there!

Anonymous said...

From my perspective there are several types of instructions as one looks back at your blog. There are sewing instructions :here's how to do X sewing function. Very helpful when I am in the moment of doing that same or a similar function. Then there are the more living life instructions: how to how to be married? how to grandparent? how to parent, including in a crisis situation? how to be a dog companion? Finally there are the implied instructions: how to be meaningful? how to be in one's own current moment?

SO I can imagine that all these different levels can be effortful to produce - which, given the breezy style of your writing (even the name "flypaper thoughts" suggests more ease of production than I suspect is the reality), maybe some of it also scratches an inch to communicate? I hope so, since I have benefited from all levels of your instruction.

ceci

Janet said...

It makes total sense to me. The blog sphere is changing and I will still be reading yours. I look forward to watching your youtube videos. And I will see you "on the gram" as the kids say!

Marianne said...

Everyone has a story to tell and I think your blog is your story. You are a writer, and writers gotta write. So, keep writing about whatever you want to write about and from the other comments, I see we will all keep reading.

I read your blog because it is full of a life that is similar to my own. When you write about situations in your life, sometimes it helps me to think through some of the situations in mine. Rescue dogs, adult children living away, a daughter with illness, husbands who are just a little “different” (I mean this in a good way. :) ), extended families in other provinces... So it is all interesting, and the sewing is only one part of it that we all seem to have in common.

Personally, I do not find one dimensional blogs interesting at all, so I don’t read them.

So my suggestion is, keep writing what you what to write, without worrying too much about what you think other people want to read. Whatever comes from your heart will be authentic and will be interesting to many of us. If you notice readership dropping (which I doubt will happen), well then maybe fewer people are interested but, even so, I think you should write what you want to write.

Anonymous said...

Flypaper thoughts are the best. They match my style. I even write my granddaughter in my own flypaper thoughts. They are nuggets of life.

Marianne said...

PS. I was rereading your review of a Jalie cardigan pattern, in which your husband mentioned it looked like a “lab coat”. That made me laugh because I had just shown a version of the Jalie City Coat to my normally very loving and supportive husband who blurted out that he didn’t like the fabric, it looked like it belonged on an “old couch”.... Sigh, I think he may be right..

Anonymous said...

I will read *anything* you write :) I am always happy to see that you have a new post for us to read.

Gail
San Juan Capistrano, CA

Kathy Young said...

Hi Barbara, I don't often comment on things on the internet, but I just wanted to say that I bought your book because of your writing. Pretty pictures are great but your writing style is why I have your blog bookmarked and come back to see if you have written anything. I have learnt more about sewing, and probably life, from reading "flypaper thoughts" than anywhere else.
Thank you,
Kathy

Nancy said...

I love reading whatever you write, so please yourself and I will continue to read...

Anonymous said...

Barb, I can't add anything new to what has already been said. I'm a fan. Please keep writing and I'll keep reading.

Donna E

Anonymous said...

Please don't stop the random flypaper thoughts and 'slice of life' posts. I love them! Other readers might like to keep up with your Instagram posts by just viewing them in their browser. They don't need to have an Instagram account or follow you. www.instagram.com/bemodi/ will take them just to your profile and they can visit as they like without fear of being 'sucked in'. Love from Cape Town.

Ana said...

Dear Barbara,

I often read your posts to my husband, and he knows nothing about sewing - thatst my seal of approval ;)

Keep on writing, I'll follow.

Debbie said...

I haven't succumbed to Instagram yet, so can't follow you there. I enjoy watching Youtube, but so many Youtubers just talk about their fabric and pattern hauls which I find boring and unproductive. If you are going to do Youtube tutorials, I would susbscribe. I love your blog and hope you will continue it in whatever capacity feels right to you.

Taja said...

I thoroughly enjoy your blog, all subjects. Not sure how or when I discovered your blog, but it was well before Miss Daisy joined your family.

I am a reader, but most people seem to prefer everything visual these days. It seems reasonable that you would have a broader audience using both Instagram and YouTube, in addition to your blog.

Do what works best for you. You need the opportunity to enjoy the process of communicating, not just the end result. :-)

And please keep your Flypaper Thoughts coming. The snippets of your life combined with your sense of humour = smiles!

Karen B said...

Go for what you want. Your Flypaper Thoughts attracted me and caused me to look for your podcast appearances. I bought and love your book. I am a blog first person but trying You Tube and Instagram. I would ask that at least for a while you put a brief note at the end of your blogs of things posted on other forums to alert me to check them out because I don't check them regularly. Thanks for all you do. And I would look forward to reading any book you published even if it wasn't sewing related.

MissRosieLynn said...

I just want to echo the above. I love reading what you write about, whether about your travels, sewing ideas, Miss Daisy, or just your thought provoking flypaper thoughts. I myself am not too keen on watching videos; that’s just not what I go to blogs for, but then I’m not that young any more! So, bottom line, share where and how it’s comfortable and we’ll follow along! And, I love reading your book.

Anonymous said...

I think your blog is unique and perfect just the way it is.

I loathe Instagram and figure with your blog you own your content. Yes it might be more immediate but isn't slowing down what sewing is supposed to be about?

My advice as a communications professional (one to the other): do one thing well. Don't add social media just for the sake of it. Yes, certain channels appeal to certain audiences but who is yours? Can you reach them all in one way well? I'd say that is here. I personally relish when I have missed some posts and then come back and get to scroll through some deliciously deep and thoughtful and funny posts. I will find out about a pattern I might not have considered and your opinion is one I trust.

I am late to comment here but these are my thoughts.


Anonymous said...

I love! your flypaper thoughts. And I will continue to read your blog however and whatever you post. It's great to read good writing. Thank you.